Monday, April 30, 2007

With great power comes great responsibility...

...but does it work in reverse? I hope so. I've just been given 'great responsibility' and I could do with 'great power' to have fun with as compensation!

What am I waffling about? On Saturday, Agent Grey asked me to be his Best Man at his wedding to 'Muffin. To say I was stunned and unable to parry would have been an understatement! I'm greatly honoured; now all I have to do is not cock things up.

I've had a look at a few websites already and I had no idea that the BM dealt with so much! I thought it was just rings, speeches and stag night but not so...

For example:

  • Plan and pay for bachelor party w/groomsmen.
  • Rent and pay for a tux, and go for fittings.
  • Attend rehearsal and rehearsal dinner.
  • Help bring and boxes to ceremony and reception location.
  • Help the groom dress and make sure he gets to the church on time.
  • Keeps the bride’s wedding ring until the ring exchange. You may be asked to hold both rings or none at all if the ring bearer has them.
  • Sign the marriage license.
  • The couple will give you a sealed envelope with the officiant’s or church’s fee in it. You will give this the priest/officiant before the ceremony.
  • Sit to the groom’s left at the reception.
  • Dances with the maid of honour.
  • Make a first toast to the bride and groom. This is usually done before dinner but in some cases right after.
  • Arranges transportation or personally drives the bride and groom to the hotel or the airport.
  • Collects and returns all formalwear rentals on time.
  • Help maid of honour bring gifts to the bride and groom’s house.
And this is one of the shorter lists!

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